TREATMENT TO LOSS OF SEXUAL APPETITE BETWEEN COUPLES (Part 1) http://wp.me/p6sz30-cK
Continuation from Part 1…
The nature which Allah (swt) has created women is to feel shy, even to what will even benefit them in a marriage.
The lost of interest by women occurs as a result of different conditions associated with undesired change in their body compared to men.
Women take steps one after the other so gently to the extent that if chanced, they could take a very long period of time observing their husband urge for copulation (sexual intimacy) and claiming not to be in the mood like their husbands but they are in the real sense they are in need of it.
In an hadith related by aisha (Radiyallahu anha) Volume 7, Book 62, Number 15:
Narrated ‘Aisha: Allah’s Apostle said (to me), “You have been shown to me twice in (my) dreams. A man was carrying you in a silken cloth and said to me, ‘This is your wife.’ I uncovered it; and behold, it was you. I said to myself, ‘If this dream is from Allah, He will cause it to come true.’ ”
From this hadith, Allah has given the prophet ruuya (dream) that he would marry Aisha, but the day the prophet informed Aisha of this hadith, she felt extremely shy as if the prophet has not married her, despite the fact that she has become his wife.
Scientifically, women lose interest in copulation as a result of living with libido loco.
For a growing number of women, declining hormones, job stress, relationship issues, and other problems are taking their toll in the bedroom.
Loss of sexual desire, known in medical terms as Hypoactive sexual desire disorder(HSDD) is the most common form of sexual dysfunction among women of all ages.
A recent study showed that nearly one-third of women aged 18 to 59 suffer from a lost of interest in intimacy, and it’s not all in their heads.
Unlike men’s main sexual complaint, erectile dysfunction, women’s biggest sexual problem is caused by a combination of both mental and physical factors, which aren’t likely to be cured by merely popping a pill.
“Women’s sexuality tends to be multifaceted and fairly complicated,” says sex psychologist Sheryl Kingsberg, PhD.
“Although, we would love to simplify it so we could have the one-two or even a one-punch treatment, it doesn’t tend to work that way.”
But the introduction of anti-impotence treatments in the last few years has spurred more research into the causes of sexual dysfunction among both men and women, and effective therapies are available to help put the lust back into women’s lives.
Apart from scientific problem, interest in sexual appetite can only increase in women depending on the dispositions of their husband to them.
Some husbands will never take care of their wives until when he needs her.
Some men has turned their wives to sex machine without “maintaining, lubricating, servicing and fueling the machine” as at when due.
Allah has warned us in several verses of the Qur’an of the roles to play before moving closer to ones wife.
Allah says “Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him And give good tidings to the believers.”
It is so disgusting and ironically pathetic that many Brothers do not understand this verse and those who understand the verse don’t know its application.
I have seen a brother beating hell out of his wife because the woman refused to do the sunnah with him.
He beated his wife until the neighbours were forced to tell him to leave her inside the room.
The wife was beaten mercilessly until the she forgot to use her hijaab when rushing out such that she also forgot to use her niqoob (Islamic veil). Subhanallah!!!
When asked why the brother was beating his wife, he started quoting this aforementioned glorious verse of the Quran painstakingly believing he was right whereas he was totally wrong and what brought tears to one’s eyes was that this brother is full bearded with Nifsu sak (jumping trousers), but the reverse is the case for his character.
When the wife was asked why she neglected and refused to attend to him, she said many things which are summarised below :
1⃣ Inability to to take care of the wife and two children.
2⃣ As the head of the family, he is not observant of anything going on with his wife and children than to request for intimacy.
3⃣ Anytime she wakes him up for tahjjud, he beats hell out of her.
4⃣ When the wife is on her menstrual period, he vacates the house until she finishes it.
5⃣ He hasn’t bought her anything apart from the day of their nikkah, and the day she gave birth to the two children.
6⃣ He told her not to apply for any employment opportunities out there allowed within the context of the shariah despite her masters degree in Microbiology. (Subhanallah!!)
7⃣ The most funniest part of it is that anytime the brother has the opportunity to copulate (sexual intercourse) with her, he used more than 7 years in his wife’s prison with hard labour (i. e. He goes more than seven rounds without getting tired), while the wife cannot go more than two rounds at most 3.
My brothers to be precise, learn from this brother on how to take care of your wife and use this illustration to commensurate the way to live your life so as not to fall into a pit.
What is certain is that if this brother is good to his wife, then there is possibility the sister improve on bed.
My sisters, shine your eyes once again before choosing and pray fervently when to choose over any brother.
Now, our main concern is the last reason of the sister. The questions are :
1⃣ How did the wife overcome the last problem❓
2⃣ What are the prophetic medicines used to tackle this intimacy problem❓
Does these medicines affect the health of the couple❓
3⃣ Can these herbs be used by fornicator and fornicatress(boyfriends and girlfriends)❓